Just Wondering

Mr. Bahr wrote:

I think that beauty has many different types to it, like physical beauty, and beauty that comes from someones personality and mind. To be truly beautiful means that an individual must have a balance between the two qualities, if they lack in one they must be better in the other.

Good way of putting that. I agree.

jcc41681 wrote:

Im just wondering if everyone is affraid to start a new topic. If everyone is afrraid then I will start one. The new topic is going to be


What kind of person do you find attractive?

hmmmmmmmmmmm... person who can make me laugh!!

Hung wrote:

From most important to least important.
Must Haves:
Kind
Innocent
basicly a good personality, like an angel

Preferably:
cute
fun
unique
nice skin
asian
love me

someone thats just like me would be fine

if i were to pick the one who i love most or the one who loves me the most, i would pick the one who loves me the most. who would you pick? im guessing everyone would pick the one who they love the most.

Hung wrote:

if i were to pick the one who i love most or the one who loves me the most, i would pick the one who loves me the most. who would you pick? im guessing everyone would pick the one who they love the most.

Only the one who loves me most can be the one that i love most.
Love is something that has to grow.
When only i invest in a love it makes no sense at all.
I also want to feel that i am loved.
Its a giving and taking.

yea but you like her more than you like the one that likes you. what if you dont like the look or personality of the one that likes you and you like the looks and personality of another girl

Hung wrote:

yea but you like her more than you like the one that likes you. what if you dont like the look or personality of the one that likes you and you like the looks and personality of another girl

Wait until you fall in love~

Then you wouldnt worry about looks. You would worry about that other person loving you and embracing you as a beautiful human being. Once you find that connection you will find the purpose to being with someone. What your talking about is all physical and sexual attraction. They look sexy and hot so you would want to be with them. That only takes you so far. Once you find the essence of the person youll find their true beauty. (^_^)

looks and personality.

Eiko wrote:

Hung wrote:

yea but you like her more than you like the one that likes you. what if you dont like the look or personality of the one that likes you and you like the looks and personality of another girl

Wait until you fall in love~

Then you wouldnt worry about looks. You would worry about that other person loving you and embracing you as a beautiful human being. Once you find that connection you will find the purpose to being with someone. What your talking about is all physical and sexual attraction. They look sexy and hot so you would want to be with them. That only takes you so far. Once you find the essence of the person youll find their true beauty. (^_^)

i really hope it turns out that way for me but i doubt it. i am trying to work on it but it is very frustrating, i hate myself for being like this but i know it is all natural. ive even thought about cutting my love for girls or about being celebit.

Hung wrote:

looks and personality.

See, thats your mistake. You try to see love too logical. There is no choosing between this and that based on some logic measurable factors.

Once you are really in love you will simply feel a strong and deep connection between you and the person you love. You wont care about anything anymore and just want to be with that special someone. Don't think too much and give yourself over to the feeling of love.

Hung wrote:

i really hope it turns out that way for me but i doubt it. i am trying to work on it but it is very frustrating, i hate myself for being like this but i know it is all natural. ive even thought about cutting my love for girls or about being celebit.

Just wait and see what happens. You don't need to "work on it".

While posting in another thread I just figured out that one of my all-time favorite music tracks might perfectly fit here.

Video:
http://stage6.divx.com/user/UNSA/video/1570628/Blank-&-Jones-ft--Bobo---Perfect-silence

Lyrics:

Quote :

The most perfect silence is
when there is no need to speak
the most perfect silence is
when there's no need to explain

The most perfect moment is
when we just come from different circumstances
but the stream of lust flows into the same direction

The most perfect silence is
when there's no need of showing
something is true
when you see the same pictures
from another point of view

When there's no need to search the outside
no need to linger on
not a single something left to distract you
no need to want

Don't you see how I long
how I long
for that moment to come?

Don't you see how I long
how I long
for that moment to come?

The most perfect silence is
when there's no need to speak
the most perfect silence is
when there's no need to explain

When there's no need to search the outside
no need to linger on
not a single something left to distract you
no need to want

Don't you see how I long
how I long
for that moment to come?

Don't you see how I long
how I long
for that moment to come?