Social Sex

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franq wrote:

you know the side ways position?
where.... well just think about it. What's your take on that

I like my hips and arms grabbed. Sometimes I just release myself and zone out and just let him do what ever. The sense of being vulnerable and unable to control your own body makes sex so more passionate. Because when I release myself to him, I can focus on embracing his touch and his licks. It melts my whole body and warms me up. It's so rejuvinating and refreshing. To just let go of yourself and let the pleasure rush through your whole body. It breaks my mind into another world~ it feels like heaven on earth.

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Eiko wrote:

franq wrote:

you know the side ways position?
where.... well just think about it. What's your take on that

I like my hips and arms grabbed. Sometimes I just release myself and zone out and just let him do what ever. The sense of being vulnerable and unable to control your own body makes sex so more passionate. Because when I release myself to him, I can focus on embracing his touch and his licks. It melts my whole body and warms me up. It's so rejuvinating and refreshing. To just let go of yourself and let the pleasure rush through your whole body. It breaks my mind into another world~ it feels like heaven on earth.

They say that sex is better with someone you love, that the emotional connection makes it so. I wouldn't know, but thats what I've heard.

franq:

It's not an attack~
Why are you making it sound so bad. Maybe you're still very inexperience with sex.

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kazedragon wrote:

They say that sex is better with someone you love, that the emotional connection makes it so. I wouldn't know, but thats what I've heard.

It is a more embraceful feeling. Sex isn't a sport and people should do it out of care or feelings for each other.

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Your right, it isn't a sport. But I think now a days people don't see it as that expression of emotion.

franq wrote:

wouldn't that make me easier for you to handle??

too bad I'm older than you and I started earlier

That's why you're so innocent (^_~)

You think that you've started having sex first, you would be more experience.

You don't think I can handle you?
You must be a very very very aggressive sex driven person to say something like that.

Innocence isn't necessarily a bad thing.

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franq wrote:

you would't even know if I told you....

And no, I doubt you could handle me.

Let me wrap this alll up in a nice package (pun intended). You know those kids who start playing violin at a young age? By the time they are like 20 they are amazing right? Well it stands to reason that besause you learn better as a kid, you will become a lot more proficient in your pursuits as you get older. Same thing applys here. I lost my virginity at 13, and I haven't gone more than a month without sex since. I would hope that I know what I'm doing by now. I can go for 2 hours with out cumming, or 5 minutes, depends on what she wants. Its all in the mind. I really don't think you could handle me. I know you've never met anyone quite like me, end of story.

Weren't you the one who also said not to be promiscuous?

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I'm not saying you are or aren't, but the impression from age 13 to not a month with out sex gives off the impression of it.

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Alright then.

franq wrote:

I'm very commited.

Even if eiko was here RIGHT NOW nude and asking for sex, and the opportunity to have sex with a famous model was right there, I still would say "no, I have a girlfriend"

thats a very admirable trait. I can only hope that if I were in the same situation I would be able to do the same and not give in to the temptation.

fraq:

Silly you~ I had to go do something.

Sounds to me like you're a very insecure person fraq. You word things in order to build yourself up. But build yourself up for what?

You're afraid of your own manhood. A real confident man would never need to build himself or brag about how good or experience they are. It's your own false security that lead you say the things you did. You want to be that "manly man" but you're not. *pokes your nose*

You're a different type of man. It's not a bad thing at all.

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why do you all think sex is such an interesting topic? (just looking for opinions)

franq:

I don't think you understand the concept of living a free life. Just because you've experience heaven and hell doesn't entitled you to living a free life.

You call your life free because you only see things in your perspective. You try to evaluate too many aspects about people and in the end you don't give yourself enough respect. Its wonderful you're willing to sacrafice yourself for the love of your friends and family. My mom did that for me and I completely understand what you mean by that.

But I don't sense that you love yourself enough~ you like to live yourself off of others. Feeding yourself to someone else in order to build your own sense of freedom in life. I don't call that freedom. I call it~ insecure of one's own being. Not being able to cope with yourself and finding others to stimulate your own self being.